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How To Split - The Best Way To Stay Out Of Court

…..or get your messy divorce back on track

  •  A beautiful Sussex venue

  • Workshops with experts in their fields…..

  • Save a minimum of £25,000 by avoiding the divorce pitfalls

  • CoParent with confidence

In collaboration with Families Need Fathers: The UK's leading Shared Parenting charity

FNF is the leading UK charity supporting dads, mums and grandparents to have personal contact and meaningful relationships with their children following parental separation.

The Best Way To Split

A Weekend That Will Change

The Course Of Your Family's Life

(No, you don't come as a 'couple' - you need some 'me' time)

Let Divorce Strategist Suzy Miller + a host of other experts guide you on your Best Way To Split : Staying Out Of Court

(+ How To Get A Nasty Divorce Back On Track - it's never too late to turn it around!)

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“The family law court-based system is toxic. 


If you don’t know how to navigate it you can end up broke,

on anti-depressants and physically ill. 


Your best approach is to keep things peaceful.”


Suzy Miller: Divorce Strategist

So Who IS Divorce Strategist Suzy Miller?

Suzy Miller is a campaigner for more peaceful ways to divorce

Suzy is professional speaker who shows divorcing and separating parents how to save thousands on their divorce and protect the children from psychological harm.

Suzy has been interviewed on BBC Radio 4 Woman's Hour, appeared on BBC Breakfast TV and been featured in numerous national magazines.

FAQs - I have some questions!

Will you show me how to save thousands on my divorce?

Yes. The information I share and the workshops you attend will provide a holistic approach that is focused on staying of court, and saving you thousands on legal fees that you shouldn't need to spend.

Can we come to the retreat as a 'divorcing couple'?

No. This is "me time" - your partner/coparent is welcome to come on a different weekend. Trust me. It's better that way.

Both men and women are welcome.

How long is the retreat?

You are invited to arrive on the Friday evening to register and relax in the Spa or just enjoy some healing therapies. The Saturday & Sunday are packed with workshops and 1-1 sessions. We being on the Friday evening to make sure you get relaxed and focused ready for the workshops during the weekend.

Just one of our amazing experts!

Francine Kaye

As one of the most experienced relationship coaches in the UK, Francine is the relationship expert for the Channel 5 programme The Wright Stuff has appeared on The Trisha show, with Gabby Logan, Fern Britten and on Good Morning TV and is featured in and writes for national magazines, the press and is a guest on national radio. She is invited for her expertise on GMTV, BBC, CNN, Nick Ferrari, Vanessa Feltz, Jumoke Fashola, Paul Ross, Lowrie Turner and many others.

Francine is also the author of The Divorce Doctor published by Hay House and Time to Live published by Hodder and is an expert workshop leader and trainer. Her experience as a Counsellor, Relationship Coach, Parent Effectiveness Trainer, Family Mediator, Family Consultant, Imago Clinical Therapist and NLP Practitioner, qualifies her to help men and women find and sustain fulfilling relationships, help couples rebuild and redesign rocky relationships and in cases where divorce is the only prognosis, she gives her clients the skills and strategies to do what it takes to divorce with dignity and heal their hearts and their lives. 

Divorced 23 years ago with two small children, Francine has experienced the challenges of an uncertain future as single parent. She has overcome financial adversity and over two decades has transformed her life to become one of the UK’s most successful relationship coaches. Francine says “As a direct result of accepting my new life instead of resisting it, I have regained my identity, healed my heart and learned to love again. As The Divorce Doctor I am helping others to do the same”

Don't let the emotional experience of your family split get in the way of a better way to divorce

Lunches and refreshments all included…..

We will look after you during

your stay.

A beautiful venue…

Because you deserve to be surrounded by beauty.

Healing and Special Techniques…..

Demonstrated and taught so you can leave with a whole set of new tools to keep yourself in a strong emotional state.

  • Do it right - The Best Ways To Split

  • Get it back on track - Keep Your Divorce Peaceful

  • Find out “What The Lawyers Don’t Tell You”

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Information and Inspiration

Workshops with experts in their fields…..

You will learn what you need to complete the divorce/separation journey in a healthy and productive way; simplifying the jigsaw puzzle of the divorce process and giving you strategies on how to troubleshoot any dilemmas that may already have surfaced.

Feel inspired…

A shared experience; the opportunity to believe in a positive outcome that might currently seem ‘far fetched’; to be able to look your children in the eye in years to come and say: “I did it the right way, despite the circumstances”.

Limited spaces…..

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What People Are Saying About Divorce Strategist Suzy Miller:

"Suzy is a fountain of knowledge when it comes to divorce. She is wonderful at giving frank advice and putting you in touch with the right people."


"Hi suzy.. Thanks again, you have given me some good options so I’m forever grateful,



"Suzy was able to offer really important and comforting advice on the whole process and offer positive alternatives to help guide me through this stressful time. Her contact list is extensive and she was able to put me in touch with a many great people who were also able to offer guidance and make the process much less painless. I'm really glad I met her and feel like my journey through this difficult period has been much more positive because of it" 


Thank you for showing us an alternative way to approach divorce. It is greatly needed in the world.

Sandra Elston,

Energy Healer

Suzy came up with a strategy to get through it without spending a fortune. She introduced me to some brilliant people who were all focussed on finding an amicable way through the difficult minefield that is divorce.  

She also introduced me to people who could help me with the personal impacts. It’s still a grim journey but I now feel I have a plan and a support network to draw on."



…in a room of over 100 people she shone out like a beacon of hope.

Dr. Marion Bevington (LION)™

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Best Way To Split Retreat

And How To Get A Nasty Divorce Back On Track

The Best Way To Split Retreat (and how to get a nasty divorce back on track) takes place between Friday evening 14 September through to Sunday afternoon 16 September 2018. The event is run as a collaboration of professionals, experts and suppport organisations who all want to help families find a better way to change form.

The retreat takes place in a luxurious setting - yet the price is surprisingly low, including two days of workshops and direct access to experts in law, finance, parenting and wellbeing, and even the lunches are part of the package - for only £348 in total.

This event is not for couples, but for those people dealing with separation at any stage who will benefit from a weekend away - some 'me' time - in the beautiful Sussex countryside, combining holistic relaxation, gathering vital information to save wasting thousands on a divorce-gone-wrong, and learning practical tools to change the way your family changes form.

The focus is on keeping you emotionally and psychologically resilient to what might be a harrowing journey, and keeping your children's welfare at the centre of the information and inspiration you will encounter at the event. This event is alsio ideal for those considering mediation and wanting to understand how to use it effectively and to get the best results. We are also collaborating with support organisations like Families Need Fathers and we want to make sure that we have a wide range of retreat attendees, as the power of working in a group is part of the massive value that we aim to provide.

Peaceful divorce isn't just for 'some people'. It can be avaible to us all, but it's not a fluffy 'everyone hugs each other' type of peace. It's a peace based on boundaries, clarity, focusing on the children's needs, and being supported to have the courage to hold the vision for a better future for your extended family.

The organiser of the Retreat, Divorce Strategist Suzy Miller, believes it only takes one person to stay sane in a divorce - to hold a safe harbour of common sense for the other parent to access at any point when they get bored of wasting money and being angry all the time. The more the 'sane' parent knows about how to make that happen right from the start - or before the assets are all spent on legal fees - the more children will be spared the damage that a nasty divorce bequeathes them.

This Retreat is a haven of information and inspiration for anyone considering divorce, in the thick of it, or still struggling with co-parenting issues. Spaces are limited, and the cost has been kept as low as possible to keep it accessible.

Who will be there to inform and inspire you....

Ashley Palmer

Family Mediator & Creator of The Handover Book

Marion Bevington

Energy Psychologist

Gary Jefferies

Financial Planner

National Charity

Clare Goldsmith


Kirsti Cox

Financial Planner

Una Archer

Child Psychologist

Fran Boorman

Start up business expert

Vivienne Smith

Author of the Single Parent's Survival Guide

Karen Marshall

Relationshiop Success Coach

Debbie Talalay

Theta Healer

Suzy Miller

Divorce Strategist

Zina Arinze

Divorce Reinvention Queen

Ruth Driscoll

Life Liberator

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Best Way To Divorce