Whatever The Stage Of Your Family Separation Or Divorce, Find Out How To Split Without Damaging Your Kids

(In A Luxurious Venue -

WITHOUT your ex/partner)

(The Retreat) was great, full of interesting facts advice and some fun stuff thrown in too 👍


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This is where we hold our retreats.....

The Best Way To Split Retreat

…..or get your messy divorce back on track

  • How To Reduce Or Avoid Entirely Any 'Court Time' Saving On Average £25,000 - £75,000

  • How To CoParent Successfully Even If You Don't Like The Other Parent Anymore

  • How To Stay Psychologically In Control And Avoid The Common Mental And Physical Side Effects Of Divorce

  • DON'T come with your spouse/ex partner! This is 'YOU-time'. Men & Women Welcomed.


"I can highly recommend this retreat for anyone who is dealing with separation or divorce. The end of a relationship is not a pleasant experience for anyone involved in it, but the specialists and healers that were at the retreat showed us how to end a relationship / marriage with dignity and your head held high.

You will get an idea of how to cope when things get really tough and find the right contacts when you need to get other professionals involved WITHOUT having to go to court. It was great value for money as well."

– Lee

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It can be all so confusing. Divorce petition - parenting plan - separation agreement - divorce process - family mediation - child custody - parental alienation. How would it feel to have all these aspects explained in workshops that help you navigate your divorce or family separation in a better way?

This Retreat is being run by Divorce Strategist Suzy Miller, in collaboration with Families Need Fathers: The UK's leading Shared Parenting charity

FNF is the leading UK charity supporting dads, mums and grandparents to have personal contact and meaningful relationships with their children following parental separation. FNF full members get a £50 discount on the event price using a voucher code. Membership costs only £39 joining fee so you cover the cost through your voucher code discount!

  •  A beautiful venue

  • Workshops with experts in their fields…..

  • Save a minimum of £25,000 by avoiding the divorce pitfalls

  • CoParent with confidence


"Overall I found the course extremely useful despite my initial trepidation about attending, primarily due to my anxiety about discussing my situation and all the emotion associated with it. However, Suzy immediately made me feel at ease and the initial getting to know you meeting on Friday evening allowed time to informally relax in a comfortable environment and introduce myself to people who have had similar experiences. This made me feel less isolated.

The course over the weekend focused on a mixture of informative and helpful presentations detailing the practical considerations of divorce from mediation through to financial planning and also how to look after yourself during a stressful and extremely difficult time. The communication and role play sessions helped deal with confrontational situations in a better way and there were many suggested techniques to help lighten the emotional load and deal with these situations in a calm, rational and objective way.

I particularly found the sessions on communication and boundaries extremely useful to me and how effective co parenting and trying to avoid the toxic court system is clearly far less damaging to both the children and their parents.

The course was excellently run and sharing experiences with other Mum's and Dad's in similar positions really helped me to re focus my efforts on moving forward in a positive way.

My journey is still a difficult one but now I know where to get help and how to keep moving forwards, keeping my children's welfare at the heart of all the decisions I'm going to have to make over the next year or so. Families need Fathers groups have been really helpful and I was very grateful to receive a half priced ticket to the retreat from an anonymous FNF donor.""


The Best Way To Split

A Weekend That Will Change

The Course Of Your Family's Life

(No, you don't come as a 'couple' - you need some 'me' time)

Let Divorce Strategist Suzy Miller + a host of other experts guide you on your Best Way To Split : Staying Out Of Court

(+ How To Get A Nasty Divorce Back On Track - it's never too late to turn it around!)

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Who was at the last event to inspire you....?

All of these excellent experts will be invited to participate at the next event (dates yet TBC) .....

Ashley Palmer

Family Mediator & Creator of The Handover Book

Marion Bevington

Energy Psychologist

Gary Jefferies

Financial Planner

National Charity

Clare Goldsmith


Kirsti Cox

Financial Planner

Una Archer

Child Psychologist

Fran Boorman

Start up business expert

Vivienne Smith

Author of the Single Parent's Survival Guide

Karen Marshall

Relationshiop Success Coach

Debbie Talalay

Theta Healer

Suzy Miller

Divorce Strategist

Zina Arinze

Divorce Reinvention Queen

Ruth Driscoll

Life Liberator

“The family law court-based system is toxic. 


If you don’t know how to navigate it you can end up broke,

on anti-depressants and physically ill. 


Your best approach is to keep things peaceful.”


Suzy Miller: Divorce Strategist

So Who IS Divorce Strategist Suzy Miller?

Suzy Miller is a campaigner for more peaceful ways to divorce

Suzy is professional speaker who shows divorcing and separating parents how to save thousands on their divorce and protect the children from psychological harm.

Suzy has been interviewed on BBC Radio 4 Woman's Hour, appeared on BBC Breakfast TV and been featured in numerous national magazines.

FAQs - I have some questions!

Will you show me how to save thousands on my divorce?

Yes. The information I share and the workshops you attend will provide a holistic approach that is focused on staying of court, and saving you thousands on legal fees that you shouldn't need to spend.

Can we come to the retreat as a 'divorcing couple'?

No. This is "me time" - your partner/coparent is welcome to come on a different weekend. Trust me. It's better that way.

Both men and women are welcome.

How long is the retreat?

You are invited to arrive on the Friday evening to register and relax in the Spa or just enjoy some healing therapies. The Saturday & Sunday are packed with workshops and 1-1 sessions. We being on the Friday evening to make sure you get relaxed and focused ready for the workshops during the weekend.

Don't let the emotional experience of your family split get in the way of a better way to divorce

Lunches and refreshments all included…..

We will look after you during

your stay.

A beautiful venue…

Because you deserve to be surrounded by beauty.

Healing and Special Techniques…..

Demonstrated and taught so you can leave with a whole set of new tools to keep yourself in a strong emotional state.

  • Do it right - The Best Ways To Split

  • Get it back on track - Keep Your Divorce Peaceful

  • Find out “What The Lawyers Don’t Tell You”

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Information and Inspiration

Workshops with experts in their fields…..

You will learn what you need to complete the divorce/separation journey in a healthy and productive way; simplifying the jigsaw puzzle of the divorce process and giving you strategies on how to troubleshoot any dilemmas that may already have surfaced.

Feel inspired…

A shared experience; the opportunity to believe in a positive outcome that might currently seem ‘far fetched’; to be able to look your children in the eye in years to come and say: “I did it the right way, despite the circumstances”.

Limited spaces…..

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What People Are Saying About Divorce Strategist Suzy Miller:

"Suzy is a fountain of knowledge when it comes to divorce. She is wonderful at giving frank advice and putting you in touch with the right people."


"Hi suzy.. Thanks again, you have given me some good options so I’m forever grateful,



"Suzy was able to offer really important and comforting advice on the whole process and offer positive alternatives to help guide me through this stressful time. Her contact list is extensive and she was able to put me in touch with a many great people who were also able to offer guidance and make the process much less painless. I'm really glad I met her and feel like my journey through this difficult period has been much more positive because of it" 


Thank you for showing us an alternative way to approach divorce. It is greatly needed in the world.

Sandra Elston,

Energy Healer

Suzy came up with a strategy to get through it without spending a fortune. She introduced me to some brilliant people who were all focussed on finding an amicable way through the difficult minefield that is divorce.  

She also introduced me to people who could help me with the personal impacts. It’s still a grim journey but I now feel I have a plan and a support network to draw on."



…in a room of over 100 people she shone out like a beacon of hope.

Dr. Marion Bevington (LION)™

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Best Way To Split Retreat

And How To Get A Nasty Divorce Back On Track

The Best Way To Split Retreat (and how to get a nasty divorce back on track) takes place between Friday evening 14 September through to Sunday afternoon 16 September 2018. The event is run as a collaboration of professionals, experts and suppport organisations who all want to help families find a better way to change form.

The retreat takes place in a luxurious setting - yet the price is surprisingly low, including two days of workshops and direct access to experts in law, finance, parenting and wellbeing, and even the lunches are part of the package - for only £300 in total.

This event is not for couples, but for those people dealing with separation at any stage who will benefit from a weekend away - some 'me' time - in the beautiful Sussex countryside, combining holistic relaxation, gathering vital information to save wasting thousands on a divorce-gone-wrong, and learning practical tools to change the way your family changes form.

The focus is on keeping you emotionally and psychologically resilient to what might be a harrowing journey, and keeping your children's welfare at the centre of the information and inspiration you will encounter at the event. This event is alsio ideal for those considering mediation and wanting to understand how to use it effectively and to get the best results. We are also collaborating with support organisations like Families Need Fathers and we want to make sure that we have a wide range of retreat attendees, as the power of working in a group is part of the massive value that we aim to provide.

Peaceful divorce isn't just for 'some people'. It can be avaible to us all, but it's not a fluffy 'everyone hugs each other' type of peace. It's a peace based on boundaries, clarity, focusing on the children's needs, and being supported to have the courage to hold the vision for a better future for your extended family.

The organiser of the Retreat, Divorce Strategist Suzy Miller, believes it only takes one person to stay sane in a divorce - to hold a safe harbour of common sense for the other parent to access at any point when they get bored of wasting money and being angry all the time. The more the 'sane' parent knows about how to make that happen right from the start - or before the assets are all spent on legal fees - the more children will be spared the damage that a nasty divorce bequeathes them.

This Retreat is a haven of information and inspiration for anyone considering divorce, in the thick of it, or still struggling with co-parenting issues. Spaces are limited, and the cost has been kept as low as possible to keep it accessible.

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